But also, they’re needed. I think Reservation Dogs is a bit violent in its conception and attack. There’s a lot of things that are talked about in there that had never been talked about before. I felt like we were trying to catch up. We needed to do a lot and do a lot fast, whether it’s not stigmatizing suicide and being able to talk about that because it is prevalent in our communities, or talking about the importance of friendship, talking about the importance of uncles and aunties and how they also are part of raising you, talking about our humor and our music and life, and then there’s also boarding schools and the Deer Lady mythologies. I needed to cram everything into a show, eloquently. And it had to be about a community to do that.
TG: And this is talked about as being a breakthrough, as you said, of Native representation. But to me, it feels even more specific to Oklahoma, specific to small-town Oklahoma, where there is all of this kind of mixing together.
SH: I think small-town Oklahoma is one of the most diverse places in the world. No one knows that. I grew up in a hometown of 5,000 people. Holdenville is more diverse than Tulsa, as far as people going to school together and eating at the same places. You can go to a restaurant in Holdenville, Pat’s Cafe, right now and you’ll find every walk of life there. Everybody knows each other and everybody’s a part of that community. I wanted to show that. Some people might think, oh, the diversity police got to him, and he wanted to fill the frame with every race and whatever. But it’s not that. It’s a reflection of rural Oklahoma.
TG: Absolutely. I also love the fact that, while Reservation Dogs is set in a small town, it doesn’t pretend—the way a lot of dramatized versions of small towns do—that it’s a kind of bubble that nothing penetrates. The thing that motivates the whole storyline is this group of kids looking to go to California. But it’s so much more than that. Everything that permeates the atmosphere is coming from the outside as much as it is coming from the inside.
SH: That’s how it was growing up in a small town. Depending on what was popular at the time, there was a point where we thought we were gangsters in South Central L.A. with Boyz n the Hood and gangsta rap. And then Dazed and Confused dropped on us and we all became hippies, Texas hippies, and we liked driving hot rods and smoking a lot of weed. We were very influenced from the outside. You can just tell in movies when a small town or rural areas are treated a certain way. I hated the movie, Nebraska. Everyone’s dumb, just really country, and they’re aliens. Some of the smartest people I know are from rural America, rural Oklahoma. If the shit hit the fan and the zombie apocalypse happened, I wouldn’t be hanging out with my friends in Tulsa. I would go home. I’ll hang out with my friends in Tulsa at a nice restaurant or go watch a band play but not if there’s a zombie apocalypse.
TG: And that’s the thing, right? This shows up with the characters on Reservation Dogs. They know gangsta rap, but they also know how to dress a deer carcass. And like you said, your friends in Tulsa probably don’t know that.
SH: They know where burger night is. Or Taco Tuesday. But during the apocalypse, I don’t know if we can find tacos being made.
TG: And I want to say, too, your film Mekko is kind of the inverse of the story arc of Reservation Dogs. It’s a story about small towns and the desire to get to the city where there’s this belief that things are going to be better or different, that you can move your life forward—but it’s not that simple.
SH: All of my films are about coming back home or leaving home. When I wrote Mekko, that’s kind of what it was about to me. It was Mekko going from his small town, finding a community on the streets, and then seeing a darkness invading that community and breaking it apart. It was also sort of an allegory for the Dawes Act and the Dawes Commission—how the government broke up our community and slowly poisoned the original nature of the way that we live and what we hold important—and I did it through the streets of Tulsa and people living on the streets.
But Mekko is about a few things. We were doing This Land at the time right before that. And This Land was pretty beautiful in that we saw it change Tulsa. I don’t know if anyone would ever say that other than people that were there and saw it happen with me, but it definitely did. I think Tulsa is the way it is right now, because of This Land, because of that storytelling. And I think that’s how powerful storytelling is. It gave Tulsa an identity: there’s the Race Massacre that people are trying to hide and not talk about, and there’s all this other darkness, but there’s also a lot of things to be proud of. And it was really beautiful. And I think back on it very fondly.
TG: Talking about the transformational power of storytelling, take us back to the beginning. Where does that come from for you? What do your early experiences of storytelling look like? How does storytelling come into your life?
SH: A lot of ways. We had great storytellers in my house and at my grandma’s house. And it was a mix of Native storytelling and rural storytelling, which I think is important, because that’s how we entertain ourselves. They would talk about death, about people that are gone. They would tell old stories about people and they were always funny. My cousins would run around and have fun, but I would rather sit in the kitchen and listen to the adults tell stories. And that’s the way storytelling first came to me.
And then, I went to Indian Baptist churches where there were preachers that were like tent revival almost, but in a Native way, and you’d hear them yelling stories. I spent weekends with my white grandma, and she was one of the best storytellers in the world. She was from Sasakwa, Oklahoma, and she could remember everything. She talked about everyone, and she always had these nicknames for everyone. You would think that it was a metropolis of mythological creatures and really interesting people, like a Medieval city. I know I got a lot from her.
And my mom was a hairdresser. I remember hanging out at her salon-barbershop. There was a kind of uncle-cousin of ours, Blackie Buck, that owned it, and she cut hair. They’re all just hanging out and I would get lost and go sneak around in the back. It always smelled like perm, because it was the Eighties. That’s why my mom had to quit cutting hair, because her hands started getting damaged from perm chemicals. But for a while, she was the woman that cut everyone’s hair in town. In high school, all the football players would come every Friday and get haircuts from her. All the cheerleaders and the girls would come and get perms from her. And so you meet a lot of people naturally that way.
And then my dad taught martial arts. Since I was four years old, I’ve fought competitively. That was interesting, because race doesn’t really play into a hair salon or a martial arts school. I just think back on what life was like pre-meth in my hometown. It was really kind of an idyllic town. It was really awesome. I really loved growing up there. I mean, we got into trouble, especially once we started drinking and partying in high school. It got dark and then meth sort of came into rural America, and also a prison moved into Holdenville, which I think also fucks things up. But storytelling was always there. I always tell stories, and it’s kind of how I talk. I just had a lot of really good examples all around me and a lot of stories all the time.
TG: And then you’ve talked about being influenced by—as we were saying—all the things coming from outside the community, from Ice Cube’s movie Friday to S. E. Hinton’s novel The Outsiders.